Leadership: Giving Your Best

Some people have fame thrust upon them. Very few have excellence thrust upon them.

Leaders pursue excellence. They lead their organizations, their families, their businesses, their countries, and, in fact, their very lives striving for their best.

Volodymyr Zelenskyy

We are witnessing a nation, a leader, committed to excellence. A people that are giving their very best. Less than our best is inadequate, considering the fact that we have examples of others who have given us their very best.

Martin Luther King, Jr. said, Whatever our role, our position, our organization, or lot in life, we should strive for the best. The measure of our success should not be attached to our particular career or what we earn but on our character and what we give.

“If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote poetry.”

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Excellence does not mean being the best but being your best, understanding that variation makes all the difference in the world. It makes a difference in the world. Excellence is being better than you were yesterday. Excellence means matching your practice with your potential.

The past may not change as it’s being reflected upon, but a future that begins with today can certainly be changed by continually striving to be our best selves. It’s exactly that focus on the future, on being better, striving for excellence, that makes a leader.


If you want to help Ukraine below are a list of resources

(source: Washington Post)

Hereโ€™s how you can help:

  • Click on the website for Care, the international humanitarian juggernaut, and a pop-up window appears. โ€œUKRAINE EMERGENCY,โ€ the alert says, with a photo of a woman holding a child. โ€œFamilies in Ukraine are fleeing violence and urgently need emergency aid. CARE is providing food, water, and more,โ€ the homepage says. The group has partnered with People in Need and hopes to build a fund that can reach 4 million people, especially women, girls and the elderly. Donations for Care can be made here.
  • Doctors Without Borders, which works in conflict zones, is partnering with volunteers in Ukraine to help people travel to health-care facilities and working to ensure that people have access to health care and medicine. To support Doctors Without Bordersโ€™ Ukraine work, click here.
  • GlobalGiving, a U.S.-based nonprofit crowdfunding platform for grass-roots charitable projects, launched its Ukraine Crisis Relief Fund page, stating that all donations to the fund will support humanitarian assistance in affected communities in Ukraine and surrounding regions where Ukrainian refugees have fled. You can donate here.
  • The International Rescue Committee, founded in 1933, helps those affected by humanitarian crises and works in more than 40 affected countries, as well as communities in Europe and the Americas. According to its website, the IRC is on the ground in Poland and working to help displaced families. The site offers suggestions on how you can assist Ukraine, such as welcoming refugees and social media activism. You can donate here.
  • Geneva-based International Committee of the Red Cross provides assistance for victims of armed conflict and has been working in Ukraine since 2014 to supply emergency assistance and support hospitals with medical equipment. To support the ICRCโ€™s efforts in Ukraine, you can donate here.
  • Journalists with the Kyiv Independent have done tremendous work covering the war, offering the world constant updates as they fear for themselves, their families and their homes. The Independent has started a GoFundMe asking for support, but theyโ€™ve also promoted a separate GoFundMe โ€” โ€œKeep Ukraineโ€™s media goingโ€ โ€” for journalists around the country who have received less international attention. โ€œ[Ukraineโ€™s reporters] have shown extraordinary courage, but the reality on the ground is that most operations cannot continue from Ukraine alone,โ€ one organizer wrote. โ€œThis fundraiser is aimed at helping media relocate, set-up back offices and continue their operations from neighboring countries.โ€
  • Project Hope, an international health-care organization founded in the United States in 1958, works to empower health-care workers facing health crises, according to its website. For the Ukraine invasion, the organization says its emergency teams in Europe are sending medical supplies and standing by to provide health screening and care for refugees. You can donate here.
  • Razom for Ukraine was founded in 2014 and has since launched efforts to build a stronger democracy in the country. Now, according to its website, the nonprofit is โ€œfocused on purchasing medical supplies for critical situations like blood loss and other tactical medicine items. We have a large procurement team of volunteers that tracks down and purchases supplies and a logistics team that then gets them to Ukraine.โ€ Razom โ€” which means โ€œtogetherโ€ in Ukrainian โ€” posted a list of the lifesaving supplies it has already purchased and is asking for more support here.
  • Save the Children, founded more than a century ago, is blunt about the grueling nature of its work: โ€œWe work in the hardest-to-reach places, where itโ€™s toughest to be a child,โ€ its homepage says. The organization says it is โ€œgravely concernedโ€ for the children of Ukraine and Afghanistan. Its donation page says that $50 can prevent three children from going hungry for a month, $150 can provide warm blankets for 30 children, and $300 can furnish masks to refugee health workers on the front lines.
  • Sunflower of Peace is a small nonprofit with ambitions to help Ukrainian orphans and internally displaced people. A post on its Facebook page in mid-February said it had launched a fundraiser for first-aid medical tactical backpacks. Each backpack, it says, can save up to 10 people. Theyโ€™re packed with bandages and anti-hemorrhagic medicines, among other critical items. The group has worked mostly off its Facebook page, where itโ€™s accepting donations.
  • The U.N. Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs oversees U.N. Crisis Relief, with donations going toward U.N. efforts to fund work in humanitarian crises. Primary goals include supporting lifesaving activities, filling funding gaps and expanding assistance in hard-to-reach areas, according to its website. You can donate here.
  • The World Food Programme, the U.N.โ€™s anti-hunger humanitarian organization, has launched emergency relief operations in Ukraine and surrounding border countries. WFP says it is scaling up to provide food assistance to 3.1 million Ukrainians affected by the conflict and has deployed 400 tons of food to the Ukrainian border this week. To support their efforts, click here.
  • Voices of Children, a charitable foundation based in Ukraine, has been serving the psychological needs of children affected by the war in the countryโ€™s east since 2015, according to its website. The groupโ€™s psychologists specialize in art therapy and provide general psychosocial support with group classes or individual sessions. Many of its psychologists are based in the regions of Luhansk and Donetsk, areas that have long been controlled by Russian-backed separatists and that are on the front lines of the current, wider conflict. Now, Voices of Children is providing assistance to children and families all over Ukraine, even helping with evacuations. You can donate here.

7 Common Obstacles to Your Goals and How to Navigate Them

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Having goals will help you achieve the life you want. Some of life’s most satisfying experiences are those that involve staying focused on a goal until you achieve it. Yet you’ll likely experience times when, no matter how hard you try, you’re frustrated by obstacles blocking the way.

Obstacles come in all shapes and sizes. 

Here are some typical blocks to goal achievement:

1. Lack of creativity. You might have your own struggles determining how to best work toward attaining what you want. Perhaps you’ve run out of ideas to make it happen. Creativity is a key component to long-term success, and creativity is a skill that can be built over time. 

For instance, many years ago I worked in a sales role where the sales team received leads that contained information that was often inaccurate. While teammates remained frustrated and helpless in contacting these leads, I took it upon myself to find ways to contact these leads via social media. Some of these leads that others perceived as a waste of time turned into sales for me. 

2. Negative thinking. We’ve all been plagued by negative thinking. You feel you’re just not going to be able to achieve your goals. You turn on the news at any given time today and you’re bombarded with headlines that can easily turn into stinking thinking. Negative thinking is a potent block, because once it begins, it tends to escalate and can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

3. Lagging confidence. Following closely on the heels of negative thinking, a lack of confidence is the bane of goal achievement. You begin to seriously question your skills and abilities to complete the work required to reach your goal. The other side of the same coin is that oftentimes a lack of self-confidence is outwardly projected onto the job, employer, or the manager. Rarely do you hear, “I just don’t think I can do this”, but rather “why don’t they (employer/manager/supervisor/department) provide me the tools for me to succeed?”. 

4. Focus follies. Who among us can claim we’ve never lost our way on the path toward our dream job scenario? We want to reach that milestone but we keep getting thwarted by distractions. How can you work on an important project when your wife keeps asking you why you aren’t painting the house or spending time with the kids? A lack of prioritization, procrastination, and discipline all lead to situations that become distractions and cause barriers to remaining focused.

5. Refusing to put in effort. It goes without saying that every goal requires you to work and persevere to reach success. Life owes you nothing. Period. 

6. Time traps. Making your way toward goals is challenging enough without having the irritation of not enough time to do it. You either manage your time, or time manages you. There are a lot of time management strategies and techniques available. Some I’ve written about previously. A lack of time is rarely the root cause of missing a target, it usually comes back to a lack of time management. No one has more than 24 hours in a day. 

7. Vague aspirations. If you’re unsure about what you really want, it’s a challenge to continue toward your goals. Vague aspirations equal unmet goals. Too many resources are wasted on individuals who don’t take the time to write out their goals and can articulate them clearly and concisely. 

Now that you have a good idea of blocks you might encounter on your way to goal achievement, review the suggestions below (corresponding to above-numbered items) to determine how to best avoid them.

1. Take responsibility to keep creativity going. Draw pictures of what you hope to achieve. Make a storyboard of your plan of action. Design a vision board of what your goal pathway looks like and include how your life will differ after achieving your goal. 

2. Arrest negative thoughts. As soon as they creep in, think, “Stop it now” and mean it. Then, replace that negativity with an “I will persevere and achieve” message. Tell yourself, “I can and will do it.”

3. Review past achievements. Give yourself props for goals you’ve achieved before. What were those goals? Use these reminder techniques to find and connect with your confidence. Anytime you feel that you need a dose of positivity, or a simple reminder of why you do what you do, reach out to a customer you’ve worked with successfully in the past.  

4. Commit to goals. Remind yourself daily about why you want to reach a particular goal. Perhaps you’ll earn more money, get a better job, live in a place you prefer, or protect your family’s future. Stay the course by re-committing to goals each morning.

5. Work. Along with committing wholeheartedly to goals, you’ve got to put in the work. Tell yourself your effort will, in the end, be worth it.

6. Use your schedule. No matter what your goal, consistently schedule the time to work toward it. If you don’t keep a calendar now, start. Look at your entire week or month and what’s scheduled with a quick glance. Write in when you’ll work toward goals. What gets measured gets managed. If you are not measuring your available time and planning accordingly, you’ll begin to miss key opportunities.  

7. Clarify goals. Write them and place copies everywhere inside your house, car, office, and calendar. When you’re sure about what you want, then you can diligently work toward those goals.

There will be obstacles to block the path toward your goals. But if you can identify the sources of the blocks, you can develop solutions or use these time-tested strategies to navigate those obstacles and claim your success.

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear”

Ambrose Redmoon

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